Schoolies: How to Help Your Teen Stay Safe and Celebrate Responsibly
What is Schoolies?
Schoolies is a tradition in Australia where high school graduates celebrate the end of Year 12 with a week of parties, usually in popular holiday destinations. It’s a milestone filled with excitement, but also potential risks. We explore schoolies week safety.
The History and Significance of Schoolies in Australia
The Schoolies tradition began on the Gold Coast in the 1970s and has since grown into a national phenomenon. While it can offer a well-earned celebration, it also highlights the challenges teens face when stepping into adulthood — often without parental supervision.
Popular Schoolies Destinations
Some of the most common Schoolies spots include:
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Surfers Paradise (QLD)
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Byron Bay (NSW)
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Lorne and Torquay (VIC)
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Bali or Fiji for overseas celebrations
These locations typically attract large crowds and party atmospheres, making risk awareness even more critical.
Schoolies week is an exciting rite of passage for thousands of Australian teenagers — but it also comes with real risks. From binge drinking to peer pressure, Schoolies can sometimes result in dangerous or even tragic consequences.
As a parent, it’s natural to feel nervous. So how can you help your teen stay safe, make good choices, and enjoy this milestone in a healthy way?
🧠 Understanding Risk-Taking in the Teenage Brain
It’s important to understand that risk-taking behaviour is hardwired into the adolescent brain. It’s not a result of bad parenting or teen rebellion — it’s biology.
During adolescence, the part of the brain responsible for logic and impulse control (the prefrontal cortex) is still developing. Meanwhile, their dopamine reward system is highly active — especially when they’re with peers. This means:
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They’re aware of the risks of drinking, drug use, speeding, or unsafe sex
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But they often lack the internal brakes to stop themselves
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And their behaviour is amplified in social settings — like Schoolies
That’s why Schoolies can be such a volatile mix of excitement and risk.
🗣️ Why Talking to Your Teen Matters
While you can’t control every decision your child makes, you can influence their thinking.
The key is open, respectful communication — and starting the conversation before Schoolies begins.
Encourage your teen to:
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Reflect on their behaviour in group settings
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Recognise when they’re feeling pressured to perform or impress
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Use strategies to pause and assess risks before making impulsive choices
Let them know you trust and respect them, and that your goal isn’t to stop them from having fun — it’s to help them start this next chapter in life safely and confidently.
What the Data Tells Us
According to a national report on substance use among Australian secondary students:
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6.4% of students drank more than four drinks in a single day in the week prior to the study
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But during Schoolies, over 70% of male school leavers and 60% of females reported getting drunk on most or all nights
The spike is clear — and so is the need for parents to stay engaged and informed.
How Parents Can Help Teens Thrive During Schoolies
Your involvement doesn’t have to feel like policing. Here’s what works best:
Support & Engagement
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Be involved in planning their Schoolies trip — accommodation, transport, budget
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Get to know who they’re going with and what their plans are
Opportunities & Limits
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Give them age-appropriate independence, but within clear boundaries
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Talk about non-negotiables like drink driving, drug use, and consent
Teach Self-Awareness
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Help them notice when they’re “on stage” and acting for attention
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Encourage “press pause” moments: stop → observe → evaluate → decide
💬 A Message to Your Teen
“I know how important this is to you, and I want you to celebrate. But I also want you to come home proud of the choices you made — not dealing with consequences you didn’t see coming.”
Let them know that Schoolies should mark the beginning of something wonderful — not the end of their safety, reputation, or wellbeing.
Need Extra Support?
If you’re concerned about your teen’s readiness for Schoolies or substance use in general, our psychologists can help you:
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Prepare for conversations with confidence
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Understand your teen’s behaviour through a clinical lens
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Equip your family with real-life tools to navigate this major milestone
📞 Call us today on (03) 9809 1000
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